On the Men that Fancy Us – by Sass Rogando Sassot

Nov 7th, 2010 | By | Category: Articles about TO Men

On the men who fancy us!

by Sass Rogando Sasot on Saturday, July 17, 2010 at 6:44pm

Let the people who never find true love
keep saying that there’s no such thing.

Their faith will make it easier for them to live and die.
– Wizlawa Szymborska

I’ve been meaning to write this article for a long time. The first itch to pen this came in 2002. I was in Sydney to participate in the Global Human Rights Conference organized by Amnesty International-Australia for the Sydney Gay Games. Together with the guy I was dating at that time, I was interviewed for a documentary by one of the media covering the Sydney Gay Games. We were interviewed separately. After the interview, my date and I found out that we were asked a common question, which was about his attraction to transsexual women. He was asked to explain what made him attracted to transsexual women and whether he was gay, while I was asked a more prying one: “Is the attraction of men towards transsexual women just an effect of the influx of ‘shemale porns’? Is this attraction just an expression of hypersexuality?” “Maybe,” I answered, “but it’s hard to pinpoint a particular cause because attraction and desire are very complex processes. The question shouldn’t be why these men are attracted to us, but why is society forcing us to justify this attraction in the first place. I feel the question arises because people have already pre-judged that being sexually or romantically attracted to people like me is perverted and immoral. The motive is not to understand but to find feed for the initial judgment.”

Then the itch to pen this article came again last year. On August 11, 2009, a nasty comment was posted by someone named “Tranny Chaser” on a blog entry at rainbowbloggersphils.blogspot.com. It was specifically addressed to Naomi Fontanos, the current chair of the Society of Transsexual Women of the Philippines, and to me, with a specific instruction that the administrators of this blog should make it sure that we would be able to read this:……

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3 Comments to “On the Men that Fancy Us – by Sass Rogando Sassot”

  1. Rob says:

    Keep up the good work Sass. I am happily engaged to a transgender woman from the Philippines, and we both support, and appreciate the hard work you do, and the sacrifices you made. Go girl, keep it up.

  2. Mac says:

    You know, a nice thing would be, if every time any one of us saw a negative comment on any social networking site (or anywhere else or even in real) we challenged it. Let’s start.

  3. Elizabeth says:

    I appreciate what little of this article I was able to read, so thank you. On a different note I have thought that it is better for us, transsexuals, in other parts of the world, not in the United States, and now I am getting more evidence that my assumption is correct thanks to men like Rob who is in the Philippines.

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